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#BookTherapy with Sarah Fader (Me)

I have written seven books and I love writing. I’ve been writing since I was six-years-old, and I don’t play by the rules. I enjoy sentence fragments, semicolon usage, and offbeat humor. I often wish there was a sarcasm font and I still don’t understand why our society can’t get it together to have one. […]

By | 2017-12-03T19:11:01+00:00 December 3rd, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on #BookTherapy with Sarah Fader (Me)

Why you shouldn’t convince people to believe in therapy

There are people out there who don’t believe in therapy. I used to try to convince them about how therapy could help people. I felt like I was a therapy evangelist. I would stand on my soapbox and tell them why they were wrong. I’d try to sway them in the right direction. But, ultimately, […]

By | 2017-12-02T19:25:36+00:00 December 2nd, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Why you shouldn’t convince people to believe in therapy

Kindergarten rules can help your marriage

I’ve been thinking about romantic relationships including marriages and how similar they are to being a child in a kindergarten classroom. Here are my thoughts on the topic below.

When we are in kindergarten we learn to share. We are told that it is polite when you are playing with a toy to share with your friend. […]

By | 2017-12-01T16:16:18+00:00 December 1st, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Kindergarten rules can help your marriage

Self Doubt is Part of My Life

I am full of self-doubt a lot of the time. I’m not sure entirely why this is, but it’s been around for as long as I can remember. Since I was a child I have second-guessed myself. I doubt my abilities even though I know inside I am capable of doing stuff. I am good at acting, writing, […]

By | 2017-11-30T08:48:30+00:00 November 30th, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Self Doubt is Part of My Life

Why didn’t you take my advice?

As human beings, we like to be experts and give advice to friends and loved ones. But it isn’t personal when the person does not take your advice. I do come across many people who get upset when another person does not take their advice. I can understand this to some degree but on […]

By | 2017-11-29T04:01:47+00:00 November 29th, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Why didn’t you take my advice?

What if there’s nothing wrong with us?

What if there’s nothing wrong with us? What if the issue is with society itself. I believe in mental illness because it’s real. Schizophrenia is real- people actually have paranoid thoughts and delusions and see things. Because two of my really good friends are schizophrenic. My disorder is real, anxiety […]

By | 2017-11-28T16:05:15+00:00 November 28th, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on What if there’s nothing wrong with us?

Sometimes I’m Glad I’m Disorganized

Sometimes I am glad I’m disorganized. I know that sounds weird, but the people I know who plan every little thing seem unhappy somehow. There will always be a part of me that enjoys living life spontaneously. I get a feeling about something or someone and I go towards that feeling. This can be a […]

By | 2017-11-26T08:10:57+00:00 November 26th, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Sometimes I’m Glad I’m Disorganized

If you saw my message why didn’t you respond?

I hate Facebook for many reasons, but one of the biggest ones is that when you send a message to someone, you can see if they read it. It’s hard for me because if they do see it, and they don’t answer me I feel like they are ignoring me. Now, I understand that this […]

By | 2017-11-23T06:32:41+00:00 November 23rd, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on If you saw my message why didn’t you respond?

Sometimes I want to cry at parties

I don’t particularly like to go to parties. I’m an introvert and it isn’t fun. So, it’s hard for me to be around lots of people. Especially if one of the people hurts my feelings. Yeah, that’s the other thing, I’m sensitive. It’s a drag and it makes me frustrated at times. I would rather […]

By | 2017-11-22T01:55:24+00:00 November 22nd, 2017|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Sometimes I want to cry at parties